The recent interview of MM Lee talking about his wife’s illness is harder on him than the stress he faced during his years in politics really touched my heart. He shared that his most difficult moment is at the end of each day as he sits by the bedside of his wife who has been unable to move or speak for more than two years. Nevertheless, he stills talk to his wife about his daily happenings and reading out her favorite poems religiously every night. He said:

“She understands when I talk to her, which I do every night,” he said. “She keeps awake for me; I tell her about my day’s work, read her favourite poems.”

“I told her, ‘I would try and keep you company for as long as I can,” before adding, “I’m not sure who’s going first, whether she or me.”

Isn't this touching? Both of them have celebrated their diamond anniversary of 61 years. Still, he cared for her the same over the years with no complains. Honestly, who would be like this nowadays? I could almost be sure that it is close to none.

I remember an article from their daughter Dr Lee Wei Ling on sunday times talking about their love for each other. MM Lee's commitment towards taking care of his wife is of great admiration. He measures her blood pressure several times a day. One day, the doctor invented a blood pressure measuring tool that is worn like a watch for Mrs Lee. However, the very next day, Mrs Lee told the doctor she prefers to have her husband measure her blood pressure. :) Its a subtle request to feel the love and concern from her husband.

Such remarkable relationship. Love at first sight is romantic but may not hold a candle to love that lasts a lifetime & is for better or for worse. Commitment is definitely a key variable to sustaining such relationships.

Hopefully things will turn for the better for them.